When I was learning to drive, on my wrong movement toward backward, my instructor screwed me and said,’ if there were your little son standing on behind your car, I would see how you move without watching him’. I was bluntly looking at him and stood still! I had no words except to confess that I was wrong. I never made that mistake again. It was such a shocking assumption for me that I could not even think of that. I was terribly taught how to move backward carefully and safely.
Today I was watching T.V., when there was a news for a girl who was gang raped a few months back that she had burnt herself for not getting justice and for being stigmatized in society for such a long time. She had no other way except to have suicide. I think she should be taught a better way on how to suicide less miserably! At least there should be some peace in death!
Many other girls who suffer a trauma in life (may it be gang rape, burned in the fire, put in graves alive, been cut body parts), have no choice except to suicide. Unfortunately who live long, never find a respectable way to live their life as they are stigmatized, ridiculed and harshly criticized even within the sweet close family members!
Why don’t people think that this girl could be one of their relatives- their sisters, daughters, or cousins. I think they have no courage to think like that or they have no sympathy even for their own relatives!
For a society where justice is no where, one cannot think of having a punishment; one cannot fear of the law, jail or any other punishment; one cannot think of being stigmatized as the society is full of the criminals- like minded people. Unfortunately, there is all good for them. I, being a blogger, can only condemn such brutalities and feel sorry for that. I offer my free services of counseling to women who had been a victim of such traumas in their life, whether they belong to Pakistan or any other country. Please contact me on my email: firstname.lastname@example.org. I am in my humble capacity performing my duty, but what about other relevant societies?
I understand that there is no voice that could stand with the victim. No law, no government, no relative, no friend, no one! Here I put it in another shoe. To the girls who suffer from such miseries and bear any kind of abuse in life, I appeal to please do not kill yourself. Please do not do that harm to your precious soul. Let it go. I know it does not sound easy to you, I know, but you can do it as it is going to get you somewhere else. You can use your energy to do something great in life. You are not an ordinary soul, God has chosen you to do what an ordinary person cannot. There must be some good news for you too from your creator in the near future. Just be patient and remain calm until you get your final destiny of peace and happiness.
If you do so, this would be the best revenge indeed. This would uplift you from the sheer darkness and calamity and take you towards the eternal peace and bring you in spirit to live a happy wonderful life. My sympathy is always with you so you are most welcome to contact me whenever you feel like.