For the people who just don’t know how to behave badly; for the people who cannot think of taking revenge from their enemies; for the people who are not so much daring to declare their attitude in front of others; for the people who are not capable of saving their selves from their fellows; and for the people who want to give lessons to their rivals but just cannot!
It is hard for good people to become bad; it is also hard for them to behave rudely with anyone (friend or enemy). Such personalities just do not know how to do that wrong thing. They are not capable of doing bad or wrong things. They feel hurt inside and take revenge from their enemies in dreams. They are not brave enough or they are too shy to show their attitude. But they are disturbed inside and that disturbance becomes their constant stress.
So if you are one of those people; pl note the following things and try one of them to see the results. Hope you will get some relief out of even reading such tips:
- Do not make eye contact with your enemy; it will hurt them severely.
- Never start the conversation from your side. Wait until they start speaking. Wait and wait. It will hurt them a lot.
- Keep/look yourself busy; especially when you are sitting with your enemies. You can use mobile net or tablet for keeping yourself busy.
- Keep your appearance a tidy one. Your grace will kill them!
- Keep smiling and think about your friends when you are in your rival’s company. You can talk with your friends on phone at that particular moment to get some confidence.
- If you are a mother or father of a child; then engage with your child actively at the time your enemy is around.
- Simply leave the place for any good excuse and get rid of the situation you do not like at all.
- It is usually better not to invite them in your house or not to go to their home as well. Instead arrange a party in some other place to meat each other ( if it is very necessary).
- They are like barking dogs; you cannot stop them but can avoid them by silently passing by them.
- Such relationships are like wealth found in the commode that you neither can pick up nor can ignore. You have to look at and leave it there as it is! You do not even need to bother about them! Or they are like shit (in the form of persons) found in your toilet that need to be flushed (from your memory). In any case you have to deal with it – there is no other way out.
The severe mistakes you need to avoid in such cases are:
- You being their friends, try to pretend good
- When you over react and smile and maintain eye contact!
- When you invite them to your home or go to visit them for humanity sake!
- When you expect them to be as good as you!
- When you hope they will change and become nice to you!
- When you spend time, money and energy on them!
- When you become overly nice in front of them!
- When you start doing things for them!
- When you ignore their mistakes and think they will never happen again!
So please avoid the mistakes mentioned above- usually people do in maintaining close relationships. Decide once what you want to do and then act wisely. It is better to perceive the situation earlier than keeping regret for the whole life! Exceptions are always there so be wise and vigilant for the actions you are supposed to take in any particularly worse situation!